If you’ve ever felt like wanting more in your relationships makes you “too much,” I want you to know—you’re not wrong. I’m Ellecia Paine, a non-monogamous love, sex, and relationship coach, and I’m here to challenge a cultural narrative that’s been quietly whispering in your ear: that if you want more, something must be wrong with you.

Navigating the delicate dance of rejection is a skill we all need, especially in the world of non-monogamous relationships. Whether you're the one saying "no" or hearing it, handling these situations with grace can make all the difference.

Discover intentional matchmaking strategies to build healthy polyamorous connections beyond dating apps. Ditch the superficial swiping and learn how to cultivate meaningful, fulfilling relationships.

Navigating the world of casual hookups can be exhilarating, but it also comes with its fair share of challenges. As someone who's been in the non-monogamous world for years, I've learned that clear communication and understanding consent are crucial for creating positive experiences. In my recent podcast chat with Reid Mihalko, a renowned sex and relationship educator (who I've been crushing on for years), we dove into the nuances of safer sex conversations and consent in casual encounters.

Discover strategies to navigate jealousy and build thriving non-monogamous relationships. Learn how to cultivate trust, communication, and personal growth in your open dynamic.

Strengthen your open relationship with this fun, interactive non-monogamy card game. Discover new ways to communicate, build trust, and deepen intimacy with your partners.

Discover the keys to thriving polyamorous relationships later in life with therapist, nurse, and author Kathy Labriola, who boasts 50 years of experience living a polyamorous lifestyle.

Discover the best first date questions to build intimacy and connection in non-monogamous relationships. Learn how to have meaningful conversations that set the stage for a fulfilling, adventurous dating experience.