The Non-Monogamy Conversation Starter: A Card Game for Exploring Ethical Open Relationships
Creating deeper connections and fostering understanding in non-monogamous relationships can be challenging. That's why I'm thrilled to share an exciting new resource that's about to revolutionize how we approach these conversations - the Non-Monogamy Card Game.
As someone who's navigated the complexities of ethical non-monogamy, I know firsthand how crucial open, honest communication is. But let's face it, initiating those deep discussions isn't always easy. That's where this ingenious game comes in.
Designed by two professional psychotherapists, Ayala and Kristen, this deck of 150 thought-provoking questions is a game-changer for anyone exploring or practicing non-monogamy. Whether you're just dipping your toes into the waters of open relationships or you've been living polyamorously for years, this game offers a fun, approachable way to dive into important topics.
Why I'm Excited About This Game
Inclusive Design: The game caters to all forms of non-monogamy, from polyamory to open relationships and everything in between. It's not about labels, but about exploring your unique values, desires, and needs.
Two-Deck System: The game is divided into two decks - a foundational deck for those new to non-monogamy, and a deep dive deck for more experienced practitioners. This allows you to engage at your comfort level and grow with the game over time.
Conversation Starter: We've all been there - wanting to discuss something important but not knowing how to bring it up. This game takes that pressure off by introducing topics naturally through card draws.
Flexible Play: There are no strict rules. You can use it as a couple, in a group, or even solo for self-reflection. Pull a few cards on a road trip, use it during relationship check-ins, or make it part of a game night with friends.
Professional Tool: As a relationship coach, I'm excited to incorporate this into my practice. It's a valuable resource for therapists and coaches working with non-monogamous clients.
How to Use the Game
New Exploration: If you're just starting to consider non-monogamy, use the foundational deck to explore your values, fears, and desires together.
Relationship Check-ins: Regularly pull a few cards to keep communication channels open and address evolving needs.
Creating Agreements: Use the questions as a framework for discussing and establishing flexible, living agreements in your relationships.
Group Discussions: Bring it to your next poly meetup or use it to facilitate deeper conversations among friends.
Self-Reflection: Even if you're not currently in a relationship, the cards can be a powerful tool for personal growth and understanding.
What I love most about this game is its emphasis on nuance and individual experience. It's not about prescribing a "right" way to do non-monogamy, but about helping you explore what works for you and your partners.
The creators have put so much thought and heart into this project, drawing from their professional experience as therapists and their personal journeys with non-monogamy. They've tested the questions extensively with real people practicing various forms of non-monogamy, refining the content to ensure it's relevant, thought-provoking, and inclusive.
If you're looking to deepen your connections, improve communication, or simply explore the possibilities within non-monogamous relationships, I can't recommend this game enough. It's a beautiful, thoughtfully designed tool that I believe will become an essential resource for many in our community.
You can find the Non-Monogamy Card Game at www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com. I'd love to hear your experiences if you decide to give it a try!
Remember, the key to successful non-monogamous relationships isn't about having all the answers - it's about asking the right questions. This game gives us a fantastic starting point for those crucial conversations. Happy playing!