I help adventurous people break the social conditioning of monogamy and learn how to navigate healthy alternative relationships with ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory, swinging, so that they can move through the challenges of jealousy, fear, anxiety, and insecurities in a way that strengthens your relationships, deepens your trust and communication, and leaves you feeling confident.

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    The Jealousy Whisperer's Guide: Mastering Emotional Self-Regulation in Non-Monogamy

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    Master Your Emotions, Deepen Your Connections, and Experience the Freedom of Non-Monogamy Without the Jealous Rollercoaster

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    This is where we dismantle societal “shoulds” and create a love life that’s aligned with who you really are. You’re stepping into an authentic, expansive way of living—and I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

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    The Consensual Non-Monogamist's Rejection Checklist

    FREE Download: 10 Scripts for Every Scenario. Say No with Confidence and Compassion

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    Finding the Roots of Your Jealousy in Your Open Relationship Workshop & Book

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    Cultivating Self-Love and Unleashing Confidence for Non-Monogamous Women Get ready to feel secure, confident, sexy, and loved like never before!

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