I help adventurous people break the social conditioning of monogamy and learn how to navigate healthy alternative relationships with ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory, swinging, so that they can move through the challenges of jealousy, fear, anxiety, and insecurities in a way that strengthens your relationships, deepens your trust and communication, and leaves you feeling confident.
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Breaking Free From Monogamy
Are you ready to break free from societal norms and embrace a non-traditional approach to relationships? If so, you've come to the right place. Welcome to "Breaking Free from Monogamy," where we offer evolutionary coaching to support you in designing a life that aligns with your authentic self. We're heading on a life-changing journey towards living authentically, I am here to support you every step of the way.
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The Jealousy Whisperer's Guide: Mastering Emotional Self-Regulation in Non-Monogamy
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Master Your Emotions, Deepen Your Connections, and Experience the Freedom of Non-Monogamy Without the Jealous Rollercoaster
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This is where we dismantle societal “shoulds” and create a love life that’s aligned with who you really are. You’re stepping into an authentic, expansive way of living—and I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
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The Consensual Non-Monogamist's Rejection Checklist
FREE Download: 10 Scripts for Every Scenario. Say No with Confidence and Compassion
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Don't be a jealous potato
Finding the Roots of Your Jealousy in Your Open Relationship Workshop & Book
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Guided Transformation Series: How to Heal a Broken Heart.
This is an evergreen healing journey filled with expert-led sessions by therapists, coaches, and educators who each cover a specific part of the breakup recovery process.
My session is now live—where I speak about how to heal heartbreak and guide you through the insight, practices, and compassion I know can help.
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I’m giving you a free bottle of our organic nitric oxide supplement, FLOW, because I believe in what it can do—for your energy, your vitality, and your intimacy.
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SVIBE
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Jealousy isn’t a flaw. It’s not a failure. And it’s almost never about your partner. In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, Ellecia unpacks a powerful realization sparked by reading Financial Feminist: the way we experience jealousy is strikingly similar to the way we experience money shame. Both are rooted in scarcity. Both are tied to safety, worth, and fear of loss. And both get way more painful when we shame ourselves for feeling them.