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Ellecia Paine polyamory coach

Helping you create the relationships you’ve always wanted

 

NICE TO E-MEET YOU!

I am a sex, love, and relationship coach. I help people connect deeply to themselves and their partners, while exploring relationships that don’t fit in the box. This is my mission in life because I am changing the social narrative on what a relationship is “supposed” to be.

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It makes me absolutely devastated that so many couples aren’t connecting at their deepest level. They are hiding parts of themselves; their deepest desires, their sexual fantasies, the things they think their partner won’t accept about them.  I know what that feels like because I used to be disconnected from my true, sexual self. I felt hollow inside, trapped, and felt like something essential was missing in my life.

I read tips and tricks in magazines for how to have the best sex, how to keep the spark alive, how to “feel closer to your man!” but it didn’t work, and I judged myself. I thought there was something wrong with me. I was “supposed” to be content with my “one and only” forever and ever! Well, I then decided to share my desires with my partner, and we explored what it means to be deeply in love-but not necessarily monogamous!

Since then, I have explored my body, mind and sexuality. We have navigated the ups and downs that come with breaking down our social conditioning, diving deep into the roots of jealousy, and creating super open communication.  I completed a top-notch sex coaching certification, practice Tantric and Taoist sex practices, and even guide folks with some really kick-ass group sex choreography!

With practice and patience, I have found deep connection, profound love, adventurous sex, and healing transformation.

 Amazing pleasure, orgasms, freedom, expression, and a vibrant relationship with yourself and your partners await.

 

COACHING

SET YOURSELF FREE!

In my work as a coach, I see people who lack sexual confidence and empowerment, have beliefs dominated by social conditioning about what a relationship “should” look like, and have fear and shame around their true desires.

That’s all BS – this is not our true and authentic way to live as loving, sexual beings!

With practical and powerful tools and practices, I help my clients gain clarity on their desires and find the safety, security, and confidence to share that with their partners.

When you partner with me in coaching, we work together to build a relationship that feels so deeply loving and connected, while you explore what non-monogamy means for you.  We will work to clear jealousies and insecurities while supporting the inner structures in your psyche, body and emotions so that you can thrive in your sexuality and love.

My private Transformational Coaching Package includes 5 months of sessions and you can work with me from anywhere in the world. Our sessions are online via video meetings which allows you to be in the safety and comfort of your home and bedroom.

I take you through mind provoking coaching conversations, guide you through emotional liberation practices and tailor homework practices that support your connections and sexual growth.

 

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