Beyond The White Picket Fence - Breaking Out of the Life Everyone Expects You to Live
Krista Kathleen, the author of Beyond The White Picket Fence - Breaking Out of the Life Everyone Expects You to Live, and I chat about her journey into non-monogamy and how it changed over time. We dig into what it means to live authentically regardless of pressures from our family and society to show up as expected.
Krista has been coaching women online since 2016 after she got fired from her full time nursing career and divorced all in the same week. She sold her belongings and left the United States to travel all over the world, working and living in 50 different countries. She had her first baby, Lincoln, at home during the pandemic and just published her first book: Beyond the White Picket Fence. Krista plans to open her own life coach certification in fall 2021 and has a goal to train & mentor at least 1,000 life coaches in the next 10 years.
💨 TLDR;
2:01- Starting the Non-Monogamy Journey
8:59- Battling Jealousy
13:39- From an Open Relationship to Polyamory
20:13- New Relationship Energy, what is it?
23:29- Monogamy as a Choice
25:23- Being Open and Authentic
35:29- Expectations
40:28- Sexual Shame
42:06- Children and Non-Monogamy
45:37- Safety and Power
49:30- Advice for Healthy Relationships
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About Us
Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.
Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.